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I am posting today to fill you in on all the top secret craftiness that was happening in the run up to my wedding! Oh how I wanted to tell everyone but I had to keep it on the QT until my wedding day so as not to ruin the element of surprise for our guests! But before I begin I must tell you all about the most terrifying post wedding condition I have ever had the burden of living with:
Wedding Day Amnesia.
WeddingBee describes wedding day amnesia (WDA) in great detail for those also wishing to self diagnose this ailment.
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Symptoms of WDA manifest themselves in a very simple way - they simply prohibit you from remembering anything of major significance from your wedding day. A sufferer might remember the timeline of the particular event, but will not be able to recall the details. For example, he/she might remember that there was dancing, and that they danced, but not who they danced with or what songs were played. Or, the patient will remember being very touched by a particular toast, but have absolutely no idea what was said during said speech.
Some common causes of WDA include:
- The rush to complete last minute projects
- Family stress
- Lack of wedding planner
- Guest list approaching 200
- An overwhelming outpouring of love from friends and family
- Euphoria at finally being married to your best friend
It is believed that when one or more of these causes combine during a person’s wedding day, the patient is unable to properly absorb everything that is going on around him/her. The excitement of the day is so overwhelming, that it fails to register in one’s long term memory. This can be compared to cramming for a big exam the night before the test: you store all of that data in your short term memory, and forget everything right after the test is over.
Unfortunately, WDA doesn’t just affect brides. Grooms have been known to suffer from it, and it can affect anyone with close ties to the organization of the event... Although there is no immediate cure, there are things that you can do to reverse the damage caused by this awful ailment. Make sure to review pictures taken by your photographers and friends on a daily basis. Listen to the stories of loved ones who attended your wedding but were not afflicted. Watch your wedding video over and over again. Listen to the music playlist from your wedding. Slowly, the symptoms will fade."
I agree with most of it...except "
Slowly, the symptoms will fade."
This is codswallop! Over three months later and no amount of discussing the events of the day or looking at photos has helped me recover my memory. Neither has it helped my dear husband who was also affected by this awful predicament. Maybe our wedding DVD will help. I will keep you all updated!
Our DIY wedding items
What I do remember much to my delight..was the DIY mayhem in the run up! For those of you who have just come across my blog, you may need a recap on what I couldn't keep under wraps. There are some links below to help you on your way.
Young Sweetie Knitted Clown for our DIY candy reception
http://helena-ag-cniotail.blogspot.com/2011/06/young-sweetie-is-complete.html
A knitted Bertie Basset for DIY candy reception
http://helena-ag-cniotail.blogspot.com/2011/09/bertie-bassett-is-complete.html
A knitted bride and groom for the cake and our handmade wedding invites
http://helena-ag-cniotail.blogspot.com/2011/08/it-has-been-while-unfortunately-i-was.html
And that's not it!! Some may call me over ambitious but I knew with hard work and dedication I could pull off everything! As well as knitting a sweet laden clown, a bertie bassett, a bride and groom and making our own invites....
....I made christmas cracker favors and a seating plan! And I wasn't the only one going all DIY, I even had my husband, my father-in-law and my mother on the job as well!
It was
certainly a busy few months! Take a look for yourselves!
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| Our hand crocheted ring cushion |
Above is the ring cushion my mother crocheted for us. She was so great in keeping our white and cream theme. The crocheting itself was done in white cotton yarn while the lining was cream satin with cream satin ribbons to tie on the rings. She also attached some elastic to the back so that our little pageboy could slip his hands through and make it easier for him to carry without dropping. It was such a lovely personal touch and something we can pass down through the generations (provided they want it of course).
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| Cathedral aisle complete with hanging lanterns |
Unfortunately we do not have a closeup of the lanterns so I am unable to show you the tremendous work of my husband and his dad. Although I am pretty sure if I have a rummage through my husbands smart phone gallery there is possibly a photo of a lantern hanger in there somewhere!
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| Our seating plan |
The tree was missing half it's baubles by the time this photo was taken but it's still pretty awesome I think! I will start at the bottom and work my way up! The pot in which the tree stands is the work of my father in laws gifted hands. It is made from wood and he carved our monogram (which I had designed for the wedding invites( on two out of the fours sides. He also engraved our full names and wedding date around the bottom. He then spray painted it black and I got to work painting the engravings white. The actual tree part is a dead tree we found in a nearby woods and brought home. It is surprising big although it is difficult to determine that from this photo. It was probably near ten foot high (can you see the computer desk in the background? Might lend it some perspective). When it was dry I got to work sealing it with priming and spray painting it white to look like snow. Each of the baubles had a piece of card strung on which had the guests names and table name. We named our tables after the sweets we had at the sweet counter. We then topped the container with fake snow and voila!! I think this was one of the more exciting ventures as we were not sure how it would work out and were extremely pleased with the results! Each table then had the name of each sweet and a picture of it instead of table numbers. The hotel did up a room layout to help the guest find each table! The guests could take home the baubles as a favor to remember the day by.
And while on the topic of tables and favors.. I also had chosen family and friends (those allowed in on the top secret mission: DIY wedding) collecting toilet rolls (the bit of them that is left over after all the toilet paper is gone) to use in the production of handmade Christmas crackers. It has actually led to a serious affliction in those close to me, especially my husband...he now has the inability to throw out finished toilet rolls so instead leaves them lying around the bathroom. As his new wife I am forced not to pick up smelly socks but to pick up and dispose of finished toilet rolls. I smile to myself every time I see one sitting on the cistern. It is a little funny after all!
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| Handmade Christmas cracker |
These are remarkably easy to make. Cut out some wallpaper, stick a cracker snap (eBay) on the back of it along with some double sided tape, insert toilet roll and roll, tie up one end with ribbon, insert favors (in our case we added a joke and fact, a balloon and one of the following: love heart sweets, popper or noisemaker), and tie up the other end with ribbon! Voila! Cracker complete! Happy snapping! We were so unsure if they would snap or not and just had enough material to make the 200 required for all out guests so we could not test them. I remember my new husband turning to me during the reception meal and saying 'do you hear that? they're snapping'. If I wasn't already beaming I would have beamed some more.
Our sweet counter!
Young sweetie and Bertie Bassett did us proud!!
For our sweet counter we kept it retro and had lots of 80s and 90s sweets! Unfortunately neither hubby or I got any! It was all eaten by the time we made it back to the reception! We are still very raw about that! The good news for us though was that the hotel had still some of our reserves left, so we left the following day with a stash of drumsticks, refreshers and fizzy cola lollies to enjoy! I think we deserved it! Most of the sweet jars were collected by friends and family in the lead up to the wedding and what few we were lacking we bought in the euro shop the week before the wedding. The chalkboard was an idea I had to keep the theme reminiscent of our youth! And I think it gave it more of a sweet shop feel!
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| My hand knitted bride and groom |
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Two brides and two grooms..
can you see the resemblance?
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Our hand knitted bride and groom really stole the show and sat centre stage in front of the top table with our cupcake wedding cake! I think more guests ventured up to have a look at them during the meal than us! My mother-in-law even ran off with them for a while to show people. They are the most ridiculously adorable little people I have ever seen if I do say so myself! They now sit proudly at home with young sweetie and bertie bassett. Forever to be cherished.
Well I think that is it...have I forgotten anything?...probably..but I'm sure I will remember someday..amybe after we have watched our wedding DVD
Until again,
Happy Knitting and Crafting
Helena =D
